Self Messages

<body topmargin=0 leftmargin=0 marginheight=0 marginwidth=0><script type="text/javascript" src="http://hb.lycos.com/hb.js"></script> <script type="text/javascript" src="http://ratings.lycos.com/ratings/lycosRating.js.php"></script> <script type="text/javascript"><![CDATA[//><!]]></script> <script type="text/javascript" src="http://scripts.lycos.com/catman/init.js"></script> <script type="text/javascript" src="http://members.tripod.com/adm/ad/code-start.js"></script> <script type="text/javascript" src="http://members.tripod.com/adm/ad/code-middle.js"></script> <script type="text/javascript" src="http://members.tripod.com/adm/ad/code-end.js"></script> <noscript> <img src="http://members.tripod.com/adm/img/common/ot_noscript.gif?rand=328851" alt="" width="1" height="1" />  <iframe frameborder="0" marginwidth="0" marginheight="0" scrolling="no" width="728" height="90" src="http://ad.yieldmanager.com/st?ad_type=iframe&ad_size=728x90&section=209094"></iframe>  </noscript> <table cellpadding=0 cellspacing=0 border=0><tr> <td valign="top" colspan=2 height=100 BGCOLOR="#CCCCFF" TEXT="#080000" bgproperties="fixed" background="31800640egdysm.jpg"> <div> <FONT SIZE="6" COLOR="#000099" FACE="Arial" ><B>The Message </b></FONT><B>   |     </b><A HREF="index.htm" TARGET="_top" TITLE="The Message"><U><B>home</b></U></A></div> <bR> <div> </div> </td> </tr><tr> <td valign="top" width=150 BGCOLOR="#0000BF" TEXT="#F7F7FF"> <div> <B>Character is determined by what you do </b></div> <div> <B>when you think no one is looking. </b></div> </td> <td valign="top" height=380 BGCOLOR="#FFFFFF" TEXT="#080000"> <div> <I>Self Messages</I></div> <bR> <bR> <div> <B>MESSAGES RELATED TO FEELINGS</b></div> <bR> <div> Control your anger.</div> <div> Don’t lose your temper or you’ll kill your father.  His heart can’t take it.</div> <div> Talk softly.  Don’t raise your voice.</div> <div> Children should be seen and not heard.</div> <div> Always smile regardless of what happens.</div> <div> Don’t let you feelings show.</div> <div> Do not talk back.</div> <div> Don’t get on a high horse.</div> <div> Be a nice girl and hush crying.</div> <div> You may be unhappy, but you don’t have to let anyone know it.</div> <bR> <div> <B>MESSAGES RELATED TO VALUES</b></div> <bR> <div> Honesty is always the best policy.</div> <div> An evil thought is the same as an evil deed.</div> <div> If at first you don’t succeed, try, try again.</div> <div> Any job worth doing is worth doing right.</div> <div> Be patient with yourself.</div> <div> You should not fail because you are capable of everything.</div> <div> Hitch you wagon to a star.</div> <div> He can who thinks he can.</div> <div> Honor they father and mother.</div> <bR> <div> <B>MESSAGES RELATED TO SEXUAL IDENTIFICATION</b></div> <bR> <div> If you are not a good wife, you are a failure.</div> <div> Nice girls don’t smoke.</div> <div> Ladies are reserved and don’t use strong language.</div> <div> A woman must not enjoy food.</div> <div> Men don’t cry.</div> <div> Sex is a man’s pleasure and woman’s duty.</div> <bR> <div> M<B>ESSAGES OF SEL-RECRIMINATION</b></div> <bR> <div> I’d look great thin pounds lighter.</div> <div> Why do I do that!</div> <div> I’ve done so many awful things.</div> <div> I have no special talent-nothing to give.</div> <div> Maybe I can do that, but probably not.</div> <div> I shouldn’t hurt my family when they’ve done so much for me.</div> <bR> <bR> </td> </tr></table></body>